What would be some advice that you would give to a couple planning a family?

THIS QUESTION IS ONLY TO THE PEOPLE THAT ARE MARRIED.





%26amp; at what age did you start your family %26amp; were you married before your started your family?What would be some advice that you would give to a couple planning a family?
Marry first. Do not marry young. A guy generally starts maturing after age 23 or 24. A girl should not burden herself with having a baby until she is at least 21.


make sure that things are working out for a year or two


Save your money and make sure you are financially ready to have a child.


Make sure that you are emotionally ready and mature enough to deal this the numerous problems and expenses a child will introduce into your life.


Be sure that you are willing to give up the partying, frequent nights out, and spontaneous vactions.


Make sure that you can afford child care if you plan to work.What would be some advice that you would give to a couple planning a family?
Get your college education first, get a real good paying job, start buying your house, THEN have kids. Try to have at least $10,000 in the bank before you have kids......they r expensive and it will take alot of money to raise them. Just to get started on a family with furniture , clothes, car seats, and diapers is about $3,000, for your first one. Once you do start a family you shouldn't space the children out any more than 3 years apart (if you are planning).........lol... life doesn't always go according to plan.