Family advice please!!!?

My Brotherr is coming in Town and he is such an Arrogant AS%26amp;*^(^(%26amp;^. My Mom pushes us to go and spend time with him even though we dont get along. Would or should I continue to deal with this guy when Comes in town.???Family advice please!!!?
Just say No. It is a waste of your time and a waste of his time. I know he is your sibling, but not everyone can just get along, sometimes siblings really can't get along at all. If you really don't want to then dont do it. If he is okay with it, then it is up to you.Family advice please!!!?
There must be something inside your brother that is likable after all he has same blood you have. Do his friends and other family members feel as you do? Lighten up some and try to find some common ground and keep time on his visits at a minimum when you can't tolerate him any longer. I had similar relationship with my brother over years. When we began communicating again being miles apart I found out he was really a okay brother and looked forward to our next long distance visit.
Maybe you should just tell your mom about what you go through when you're with him. Give her like, examples and say that it's just very uncomfortable and that you don't want to deal with it. If she still makes you go then do the same with your brother. Hope it comes out good.


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I have an arrogant brother too the only thing you can do is put up with it. He is family and there is really nothing you can do unless you like put heat powder in his underwear drawer lol and get the satisfaction of watching him jump around lol.
Sounds like u dont like him very much, and if u really HAVE to hang out with try to do something with him that doesnt involve much of u guys having to talk to each other, like a movie, or bring some of his and your friends with so u can go together, but kinda seperate once u get there.





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it seems to make your mom happy when you guys get along. so if he doesn't stay long, try to cooperate, but you don't have to be all brotherly towards him. and if he bugs you then just leave the room or area.
i had that with my brother, and i stopped going just to make the rest of the family happy. why should i be miserable just to make them happy. talk with you family about him and why do you have to go.
Dude, I know how you feel. Try going to a ballgame or something. That way you won't really have to socialize with the guy and you get to watch a game
Yes, of course. You have to honour your Mother, if not your Brother. And please, no grudging presence okay - be nice, be gracious, buy him a gift, and give him a hug.
Yes. Just do out for a little while and have fun. Ignore him being a jerk and just know that is only for a few hours.
no!! its your life and think about it, why would you do something you really dont want to. sure hes your brother but maybe avoiding him is the best way to keep things from getting too out of control
Issues aren't magically resolved. You must talk it through, what ever it is . Easier said than done, i know; but if you do show that effort of reconciliation. It will pay off.
yes, he's your brother.... and you wan't mom happy... maybe eventually your 'bigger person' attitude will humble him a bit. You should invite him over to watch step brothers... kindof a lame movie, but an obnoxious brother!
Visit him once to please your mom. Give him a chance, maybe he has changed. If he has not, then say your excuses and get out.
Since he is your family I think you should see him at least once. Just remember he doesn't determine who you are. Regardless of how he acts.
Of course! He is your brother for heaven's sake. Maybe spending some quality time with him could make him a more down-to-earth person.
no matter what you do, he's still your brother. listen to your heart; it whispers. please your brother and you please your mom too.
**** him. don't put up with his ****. if gets out of line punch him in the dick
Yes, but only once or twice do you need to see him to appease your mother
just dont countine 2 deal wit him just tell ur mom no
TALK TO HIM ABOUT THIS
He's your brother..suck it up..when he's dead and gone your gonna regret not spending time with him.
dont put up with his shinanigans! haha thats a funny word. but anyway speak ur mind. let him know how u feel.