I am in need of some boyfriend and family advice.....?

Well I am dating this guy (we have been 2gether for 6 months and were engaged) everything is great between us! Were very much in love but my family and friends tell me he is not right for me. It just give me stress and hurts my feelings that they can't be happy for me! what should i do about the situation without hurting my friends and family's feelings or ruining my relationship with them?I am in need of some boyfriend and family advice.....?
Just what is supposed to ';be right?'; A man who fawns over them more than you? A man who does not make the money they want or have the career they want?





When the elders try to decide what is ';right for you';, they secretly mean what is right for them. And this can destroy every relationship you find.





Presumably you are not engaged to a criminal or someone lacking in ethics. That would genuinely be a serious issue to face with your beloved, and that should cause a delay or cancellation of the engagement. But you have not indicated this to be the case.





Therefore, you must assert some important things as one who is eligible for marriage:





1. You are a sovereign being.


2. Nothing will stop your loving your family.


3. Loving your family does not mean giving up your sovereignty.


4. You are finding the fulfillment of your dreams in the language of your dreams, not theirs.


5. If your family loves you they must respect your sovereignty as an individual, and later as a family of your own.





The choice is really yours as to who you would choose. And if a family withdraws their affection or friendship because of it, then real love wasn't in that family to begin with.I am in need of some boyfriend and family advice.....?
Tell them that you know it's right and that's all that matters. And if they can't understand then you'll have to just ignore it.
ask yourself why everyone that loves you tells you hes not the right one for you. pay attention. dont be blind. if ur mature enough to entertain the thought of marriage you need to take a closer look at this guy. dont be a fool. im not saying dump him. im saying open your ears and eyes and pay attention. there has to be a reason or several reasons why everyone says this about him. Do you think that your loved ones would try to cheat you out of life long happiness? or would they try to protect you from the biggest mistake of your life? just find out why they are saying these things, and listen with an open mind and heart.
Love is blind, I would think to take it a bit slower with this fella. It takes time to get to know someone. But you live and you learn. I say if your mom is one of these voices, you should take into consideration what she is saying. You make your own mind, but alot of times mom knows best because she's been there before.
Your family is outside looking in. maybe they see something you don't. take a step back and look at you life.
How do they know if he's not right for you or not? If you love him and he loves you then that's all that matters. Who cares what others think. If you always care about what others have to say...you're never gonna live life the way you want to live it. Step out of the circle and do what you think is right. Family should always understand. If they don't at first they will eventually catch on.
If you want to end up in divorce, listen to yourself and marry him. If you having sex with him already, then that's not smart. You only know the guy for six months. Crazy. I would never a girl only knowing her for six months. There is something wrong with him. Listen to your family.
Why do they think that? Ask them. If their reasons aren't legitimate do not give them another thought. Who is marrying him anyway?
Well I'd be concerned since you've been together for 6 months and already engaged.
tell them you appreciate their concern, and that you are sure no one is ever going to be good enough for you in their eyes...but you love this man and you would like their blessing
Maybe they think you're rushing things. I mean, you've been together for just 6months and you're already engaged? Even I would be surprised to know that. I think you should take your time and get to know each other more. I think your relatives are just concerned about you.
Engaged? After only 6 months?


Have you Lost your Brain?





Listen to your family %26amp; friends carefully!


This dude Must be a LOOZER!





You have clouded ';Vision';!





Sit down with your family members


ASAP %26amp; ask them WHY they think


this dude is not ';right'; for you.
if you both really love each other the family need to just butt out or deal with it.

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