Egyptian family advice question?

my uncle from father side always ask for money from your parents and most of the times don't return money back, my mother which is in control of the money at home LOL stopped giving them money, and since i work and i have my own money she also said that she will be very angry with me if she knew that i give him money, her reason is that they spend money more than their capacity, they buy expensive clothes, send their kids to american school and that if I want to give money to charity it's ok but not to my uncle.





now whenever i meet my uncle he ask me for money and i tell him ok and i just disappear for sometime and don't give him what he asked cause one time he took from me and didn't return.


should i give him or no.


Money is not the problem i'm talking about the concept.Egyptian family advice question?
well according to your mother,they are not responsible ppl...so i think you should go with your mother's opinion ..i guess she has more experience with them than you do...and i think if they ask again you could him that your mother takes your salary every months and gives you day by day allowance..and your mother has a point that you should give it to the poor because they are more needy than them because your uncle is not needy he is just living a life that doesn't suit him ..but you should keep in contact with him too,so he doesn't hate you or something i guess...


that's my point of view hope it helpsEgyptian family advice question?
Well your mum is right, you should not give him money if he used it on thing he could do without and he never pays it back.





I think that you should not give him the money if u think he has enough allreeady to buy normall prices things (for example if u know he has enough money to buy food and drink and normaly priced clothes not expensive ones)





you shoud save the money and give it to the poor people who are one the street starving and dieing an the poor animals who are also dieing.





Hope that helped :)
Nah my Papa does the same thing, but that's because he knows that my family needs it. No you shouldn't be giving him any money. It's obvious that your uncle isn't responsible and is spending money on useless material needs. You should be giving it to people who need it. It's also kind of immature of your uncle too so ya.





I don't think you should be giving him money.
lol my parents are facing the same thing my moms brother has some financial issues and so we always have to send him money, yeah i agree we should help out family but i hope my family starts to think like urs because whenever we give them money they always spend it like right away. we shouldnt have to support two families. but hey thats family
Listen to your mother...moms know best....and judging from her decision in this situation she obviously knows whats best.....her solution is the best one and although it may be tempting to lend your uncle money try to stay away
Listen to ur mom, she's right.


Tell ur uncle in a nice way, that u gave him enoughh, can't give him anymore, and that he should make his own.


Good luck!
In Egyptian culture, is it customary for a nephew to give money to an uncle?
Dont give your hard earned money out to someone who dont appreciate it.
Put him in rehab, he's on drugs. I swear!
as i see it your mother is safe guarding you. your uncle asks to borrow money but doesn't pay it back. she doesn't want him to take advantage of you and wants you to learn from her mistakes. your uncle is not going to ever learn about the concept of money because he is bailed out. if you want to give money give it to charity. but not to your uncle. he'll just take advantage of your kind nature by the sound of it and that just isn't on in my opinion. it'd be ok if he gave it back but he doesn't. to ask to borrow money and not give it back is theft.