Thursday, August 19, 2010

Family advice desperatley needed (Please Read)?

what's the best way to convice my family that we need to move away from this hick town that we live in and back to the city becuase for two years now sense we moved here i've been experiencing racism throught the school from people in my school and i was even walking to the library once and someone yelles out the wondow white power! my mom already knows all this but she still keeps making desicions that have to do with us staying here in this hick town instead of moving back to the city were we canme from. how can i convice my mom and family to move us back to the city? because this racism has brought me into this really heavy deprression and i feel sooo isolated from everyone and i feel unwelcome were i live becuase i'am half black please is there a way to convice them to move us away? anyway positve advice is very much apprectiated thx.Family advice desperatley needed (Please Read)?
how about you tell them exactly what you feel about


living where you are now. its obvious you can easily


express it through yahoo answers but try putting it


in words. i am sure they will understand. just really


express what you feel, tell them how people are


treating you and that you don't feel welcomed.





everything will be alright [:Family advice desperatley needed (Please Read)?
Tell them how much it is effecting you. Make a list of the reasons you should stay there and reasons you should not stay there and show it to them.
Show the cons of living where you currently are and show here the pros of moving back into the city.
Well i think the way you are feeling is very serious and also what you are going through is serious.


I think you should sit them all down one day and just have an open discussion in which you guys can share your feelings/experiences in the new town. I'm guessing you're not the only one suffering from racism. So, after all that and you say how you've been feeling, say you don't feel safe and it's putting you in a really heavy depression. That definitely deserves immediate attention and hopefully change.


Hope this works! %26amp;%26amp; I'm sorry about your situation
your mom has her reasons of staying there. Have you ever thought that maybe it is because of financial reasons. You might not like it but unfortunately you are still living with her and it is not your choice. All you can do is not let other people get you down and keep your ideas and morals. I know it sucks but once you are old enough to work then you can save your money and move back to the city after high school, that's what I did when I was 18 and until then sweetie, you have to do what your parents do~ even if it sucks now.
My husband went through the same thing your going through, but instead of having his mom move he basically stood up to the bullies and stood his ground. Had a couple fights and then made lots of friends. How old are you, if you are in high school just try to make some really good friends and keep your head up. Your mom has her reasons for why she moved her family to this town. If you still feel strongly about moving ask your mom if you can move in with some family members back in the city.
Unfortunately high schoolers are notorious for harassement and some times it is unbearable, but try this. How many years have you got left in school, you could make up a big calendar with the amount of days you have left until graduation. Remember that after your graduation there is nothing holding you here. You won't be going to school here forever and racisim is unfortunately a fact of life. So good luck and remember your primary goal is an education a social life doesn't feed you, the education does, and you really don't want to work for Wallmart do you.

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