Step Family Advice.?

What do you do when your mother or father leaves you for another family? When *** left they left my *** all alone with 3 kids, It was real hard to cope. We see them (*** and step-family) every 2nd sunday but my *** always choses them over me. My step-sister is spoilt rotton and I never get ANYTHING from my own ***. Sorry (*** stands for father) I dont know what to do. Advice Please.Step Family Advice.?
I know it's tough. Sorry you are experiencing this. I'm sure if you had a heart felt talk with your dad things can change. Tell him how you feel. He may not even realize there is a problem unless you let him know. I'm sure he would be more then happy to evaluate the relationship with you and your siblings. I have a boyfriend with 4 older kids and they won't come around me. I'm so nice and willing to be there friends but they don't like the idea of their dad with someone(for 4 years but no children) but they are more then happy to always be with their mom and her boyfriend. If it wasn't me it would be someone else. Mixing families can be very hard an unless all is willing to come together and work on it you can only be responsible for you. Try not to take too many things personal, it's not your fault.Step Family Advice.?
Hon, you feel abandoned, and no wonder.





Your father seems to have chosen his new sex life over you. It's not the stepkids, it's the new sex life... believe me, i know...





You could let your father know how you feel -- ';i feel abandoned by you, i feel left out of your life, i feel you just walked out on me, i am hurting';. That's the truth.... maybe it will give him food for thought.





I'm sorry you're having this problem. Meanwhile, depend upon those you DO have surrounding you in your life.





sending hugs and i hope it works through.