Seeking info from anyone who can offer info on living in Turkey, my husband hasnt lived there in about 10 years so its a realistic and scary thought for us all but inevitable to keep our family together after 10 years of marriage keeping our family together is the most important but very difficult especially when dealing with other family members and there concerns and thoughts and ours as well.
knowing what has to be done can be very difficult and doing it is even more.
note: Me and the children have also never ventured outside the USA so you can only imagine.
So Please send me your thoughts and ideasWithin the next years I maybeforced to leave the US to Turkey so I can keep my family together what advice?
Hello dear!
1. Since you should live, you go!
2. Try to live in your own place and keep good relations with your in-laws. Don't live all together! There will be classes due to different philosophies, ages, times, culture, etc.
3. You should never allow finances to be mixed.
4 Make the children visit them often and pay respect to them
5. Make sure the kids go to great school
6. Difficult but if you do not know the language, you should start learning, you should live there!
7. Turkey has been modernize, but still is decades behind the USA, in many aspects!
8. There are issues that you will find better in Turkey, enjoy them!
9. There are issues you can not adopt or resolve, try to modify your stand towards those ideas.
10. Enjoy everything, see it as an experience, as a process of love, learning, progress, dive in history, ...
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